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But the age-old dramas of heartache and fulfillment, romance and revulsion, and Prince Charmings and not-who-he-said-he-was still play out. Further north, the Barrington Singles Group enjoys wine tastings, paint ball and ziplining.Meet Market In the past, perhaps you needed a pickup line if you were single. The list goes on: La Grange Christian Social Network; West Suburban Divorce Support Group; Glen Ellyn Movies, Dinner and More; and even Chicago-area Herpes Singles Club.

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We’ll introduce new people, if they wish,” he says. Many members, like him, are divorced, and some are leery of dating again. Mc Nabb can point to one person who can wholeheartedly vouch for the efficacy of his meet-up group — himself. “It’s a social group for people looking for something to do, somewhere to go.” Many members are not single by choice — they are widowed or went through a bitter divorce. “It’s easier to be killed by a terrorist than it is to find a husband over the age of 40,” a co-worker tells Annie (Meg Ryan).

He met Gilly through his group, and the two bought a home together. of Glen Ellyn wants to make one thing perfectly clear about I’m Not Dead Yet, 50 , his social group. They bowl, listen to music at nightclubs, take swing dance lessons, and do whatever else people do in the suburbs. The world was binary then — the married and unmarried. One was fulfilling and normal and the other was bitter and dark. ” a Naperville divorcee in her 40s lamented to West Suburban Living in 2002.

Joel Mc Nabb started Fox Valley Singles in 2011 after he lost his job in California and moved back to the Chicago suburbs, near his mother. If 60 is the new 50, as people take better care of their health, being single is the new normal, as society becomes more accepting of diverse lifestyles.

“I didn’t know anyone,” says Mc Nabb, 46, a safety manager for a major retailer. Unfathomable today, a few generations ago not being married was a sign of deviance.

“Singles groups thrive because people are drawn to others.

They feel that there may be someone out there who likes them and maybe who even will love them,” says Bill Brown, pastor of the ministry.

“There is less of a stigma to being single now, if there is any stigma at all,” says Rev. Whatever we’re familiar with tends to be seen as normal.” The trend is likely to hold.

Ken Potts of Samara Care in Downers Grove/Naperville, who has counseled married people and others for 42 years. The arrow — Cupid’s arrow, in this case — is definitely pointing down for the next generation.

That success is part of the group’s lore — and serves as a quick recruiting tool for curious singles.

Currently, more than 300 people from 60 villages and towns, most in their 60s and 70s and quite a few widowed, regularly attend events.

Being alone is also something that Rick, a plumber from Aurora, obviously does not enjoy. “I’m just looking to get out of the house and meet some new people,” he says softly. We may be a society that trumpets individualism, but we seek to be with others — especially on a cold, drab weekend night and often ultimately exchanging vows before a minister.

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